Showing posts with label trials. Show all posts
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Monday, November 11, 2019

November 17, 2019 Amid Trials, God Gives Strength

Nov. 17, 2019   Amid Trials, God Gives Strength   Year C

Reading I: 
Malachi 3:19-20a

Psalm:  98

Reading II: 
2 Thessalonians
3:7-12

Gospel: 
Luke 21:5-19

Pope John Paul II called the twentieth century the “century of martyrs.” Although persecution of Christians has been ongoing throughout our history, during the twentieth century, there were more Christians killed for their faith than in all the other centuries combined.

Even today, while in many parts of our world people die rather than deny their faith, we, in the United States, have been blessed to live in a country that supports freedom of religion. While we have not had to lay down our lives to defend our faith, we need to practice it, appreciate this gift, and take advantage of the help offered us to strengthen our faith. We need to listen attentively to St. Paul when he encourages his followers in his letter to the Romans 8:35-39:

      What will separate us from the love of Christ? Will anguish, or
      distress, or persecution or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or the
      sword? As it is written:
            ‘For your sake we are being slain all the day; we are looked
             upon as sheep to be slaughtered.’
      No, in all these things we conquer overwhelmingly through him
      who loved us. For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor
      angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor
      powers, nor height, nor depth, nor any other creature will be able
      to separate us from the love of God in Christ Jesus our Lord.

These days, we may need to be ready to defend our faith from those who will ridicule our faithfulness at a time when the practice of religion is declining. As the scandals of Church leaders were revealed, many became disillusioned, especially young people who were abused by clergy or youth leaders.

As time has gone by, the abuses of many powerful people have come to light. This widespread problem is finally being addressed. However, the abuse by trusted clergy has had a devastating effect on young people. Even sons and daughters of very devout Christians have turned away from religious practices. Grandparents suffer greatly when their children do not have their grandchildren baptized or brought up with religious instruction.

While some grandparents take on the responsibility to share their faith with their grandchildren, others are not allowed to do that by the parents. All they can do is give a good example and pray for their loved ones. Perhaps later, the young ones will search on their own and find the Lord who will then be their Shepherd accompanying them on their life’s journey.

Sometimes, there are friends and coworkers who will challenge those who
continue to practice their faith, in spite of the failures of their clergy. These faithful understand that the purpose of prayer, Bible study, and attending Masses or religious services is to grow their relationship with God. The Lord is their anchor in the peaceful times and storms of life.


Although the types of suffering for the faith may vary, if offered to the Lord, He will give the strength to bear them. Psalm 62 line 2 is a great comfort:

           “He only is my rock and my salvation,
            My stronghold; I shall not be greatly shaken.”

  Reflection Question:  If I have a friend or relative who has turned away from religion, what can I do?


Spanish Translation of Reflection Above...
Amid Trials, God Gives Strength


El Papa Juan Pablo II llamó al siglo XX el “siglo de los mártires”. Aunque la persecución de los cristianos ha estado en curso a lo largo de nuestra historia, durante el siglo XX, hubo más cristianos asesinados por su fe que en todos los otros siglos combinados.

Incluso hoy, mientras que en muchas partes de nuestro mundo la gente muere en lugar de negar su fe, nosotros, en los Estados Unidos, hemos sido bendecidos de vivir en un país que apoya la libertad de religión. Si bien no hemos tenido que dar nuestras vidas para defender nuestra fe, debemos practicarla, apreciar este regalo y aprovechar la ayuda que nos ofrecieron para fortalecer nuestra fe. Necesitamos escuchar con atención a San Pablo cuando anima a sus seguidores en su carta a los Romanos 8: 35-39:

      ¿Qué nos separará del amor de Cristo? Angustiará, o
      angustia, o persecución o hambre, o desnudez, o peligro, o el
      ¿espada? Como está escrito:

            Por tu bien, estamos siendo asesinados todo el día; nos miran
             como ovejas para ser sacrificados’.
      No, en todas estas cosas conquistamos abrumadoramente a través de él.
      quien nos amó Porque estoy convencido de que ni la muerte, ni la vida, ni
      ángeles, ni principados, ni cosas presentes, ni cosas futuras, ni
      poderes, ni altura, ni profundidad, ni ninguna otra criatura podrá
      para separarnos del amor de Dios en Cristo Jesús nuestro Señor.

En estos días, es posible que necesitemos estar listos para defender nuestra fe de aquellos que ridiculizarán nuestra fidelidad en un momento en que la práctica de la religión está disminuyendo. Cuando se revelaron los escándalos de los líderes de la Iglesia, muchos se desilusionaron, especialmente los jóvenes que fueron abusados ​​por el clero o los líderes juveniles.

Con el paso del tiempo, los abusos de muchas personas poderosas han salido a la luz. Este problema generalizado finalmente se está abordando. Sin embargo, el abuso por parte del clero de confianza ha tenido un efecto devastador en los jóvenes. Incluso los hijos e hijas de cristianos muy devotos se han alejado de las prácticas religiosas. Los abuelos sufren mucho cuando sus hijos no bautizan o educan a sus nietos con instrucción religiosa.

Mientras que algunos abuelos asumen la responsabilidad de compartir su fe con los nietos, los padres no pueden hacerlo. Todo lo que pueden hacer es dar un buen ejemplo y rezar por sus seres queridos. Quizás más tarde, los jóvenes buscarán por su cuenta y encontrarán al Señor, que luego será su Pastor que los acompañará en el viaje de su vida.

A veces, hay amigos y compañeros de trabajo que desafiarán a aquellos que continúan practicando su fe, a pesar de los fracasos de su clero. Estos fieles entienden que el propósito de la oración, el estudio de la Biblia y asistir a misas o servicios religiosos es hacer crecer su relación con Dios. El Señor es su ancla en los tiempos pacíficos y las tormentas de la vida.

Aunque los tipos de sufrimiento por la fe pueden variar, si se le ofrecen al Señor, Él le dará la fuerza para soportarlos. Salmo 62 línea 2 es un gran consuelo:


           “Él solo es mi roca y mi salvación,
            Mi fortaleza No voy a ser muy sacudido”.


 Pregunta de Reflexíon:  Si tengo un amigo o pariente que se ha alejado de la religión, ¿qué puedo hacer?


Comments:


Pat Chiaffa, ASBS
It makes me very sad when someone I care about announces they are leaving the church. Frequently, the reason given is that organized religion is merely a tactic of power and control, and a means of getting money. The clergy sex abuse scandals are often cited as cause of declining attendance at Mass.  The church may have done some things that would make a critical person want to leave it. However, it is this same Church that contains in its center the Word of God and the sacraments of God’s healing love. Henri Nouwen asks, “Can we trust that in the midst of all its human brokenness the Church presents the broken body of Christ to the world as food for eternal life? Can we acknowledge that where sin is abundant, grace is superabundant, and that where promises are broken…God’s promise stands unshaken? To believe is to answer yes to these questions.”
I believe. Therefore, I pray that these restless hearts will remain open to the movement of the Holy Spirit. Whenever the opportunity presents, I ask about their relationship with Jesus, encouraging them to keep their connection to God alive even though they chose to “turn away from religion” as stated in your reflection question.  I listen to their reasons for leaving without judging. I hold them in a space of love, not lecture. It is really important to listen prayerfully because while some individuals may express anger and point fingers about who and what they perceive to be at fault, others may be silently suffering, feeling betrayed by the behaviors and actions of religious leaders whom they respected and viewed as models of the faith. 
These conversations are opportunities for us to be the caring presence we were created to be to reflect the love of God to our wounded brothers and sisters in Christ. At risk is the loss of a precious soul. “Losing our soul means losing touch with our center, our true call in life, our mission, our spiritual task. Losing our soul means becoming so distracted by and preoccupied with all that is happening around us that we end up fragmented, confused, and erratic.” Speaking from personal experience, I am in total agreement with Nouwen’s words.  If one forsakes their relationship with God, they will lose their true sense of self. That is a terrible tragedy for the truth of our being is that we are the Beloved of God.
Allen Hunt’s recent Dynamic Catholic Daily Reflection addresses the importance of being concerned for one another’s spiritual wellbeing. I share it here because I feel it fits this dialogue. “We need a community to help us reach our goal. Faith is not an individual journey; it’s a team sport. We need each other. We are on this journey together.”
Let us remind one another of the stepping-stones on the path: forgiveness, acceptance
and love.
We need to forgive others when they fail to meet our expectations. We need to forgive ourselves for the times we fail to behave as followers of Christ.  We need to accept others in their brokenness while acknowledging our own woundedness. Lastly, we need to love as unconditionally as our Source loves us.


Stephanie Morris, Ph. D, Historian, Certified Archivist, emerita

People have been leaving the Catholic Church for generations. It hurts when a friend or relative turns his or her back on the Church. Trying to talk to them about this change can result in being hurt yourself when they call you names or insult the Church. They may have valid reasons for not liking the structure, the hierarchy of the Church; some Church leaders have made serious mistakes. If I have a chance, I tell them they are still welcome. I pray for them and hope that they will someday return to the active practice of their Faith. The best I can do is to be a witness, to practice my Catholic Faith openly and sincerely, and hope that someday they will want to reconnect with God through the Catholic Church.

Monday, August 7, 2017

Trust - August 13,2017

The Nineteenth Sunday in Ordinary Time  A



Reading I:  1 Kings19:9a,
                     11-13a
Psalm:  85 

Reading II:  Romans 9:1-5

Gospel:  Matt 14:22-33


In last Sunday’s Gospel, we heard about the Transfiguration of Jesus. The Lord is preparing the disciples to witness the Passion and wants them to be aware of His divinity. In this week’s Gospel, we hear that Jesus appears walking on the sea. Again he is attempting to strengthen the faith of His apostles. They need to know that this holy man who had been with them on a daily basis is more than a human person. They have to realize His divinity also.  

At first the apostles think they are witnessing a ghost. However, Jesus calls out to them: “Take courage. It is I. Be not afraid.”
Characteristically, Peter responds enthusiastically and asks the Lord to let him come to Him over the waters. “Come!” calls Jesus. As long as Peter keeps his eyes focused on the Lord, he is able to walk on the waters, in spite of the roughness of the sea. However, when he takes his eyes off the Lord and sees how the strong winds are whipping up the sea, fear grips him and he feels himself sinking. He then cries out to the Lord: “Save me!”   

How true of many of us also. When things are going well for us, we can feel that we are doing fine and then we take our eyes off the Lord.  However, when trials come, we realize that we need the Lord, and we desperately call out for help. I often marvel at people whose trust is so secure that there is a certain peacefulness in their being, even in traumatic circumstances. 

Like everything else in life, keeping our focus on the Lord in good times as well as difficult ones is a special grace. Let us ask the Lord for the grace to love Him as He deserves to be loved and to trust Him at all times.
               
         “Listen to me, house of Ya’akov,
           all who remain of the house of Israel:
           I have borne you from birth,
           carried you since the womb.
           Till your old age I will be the same —
           I will carry you until your hair is white.
           I have made you, and I will bear you;
          yes, I will carry and save you.”   
                                
                                               Isaiah 46:3-4

 Reflection:   When do you find it difficult to trust in the Lord?  Ask Him to help you.


Spanish Translation of Reflection Above...


Confianza
   
En el Evangelio del domingo pasado, escuchamos acerca de la Transfiguración de Jesús. El Señor está preparando a los discípulos para presenciar la Pasión y quiere que sean conscientes de Su divinidad. En el Evangelio de esta semana, oímos que Jesús aparece caminando sobre el mar. Nuevamente está tratando de fortalecer la fe de Sus apóstoles. Necesitan saber que este santo hombre que había estado con ellos a diario es más que una persona humana. Tienen que realizar Su divinidad también.

Al principio los apóstoles piensan que están presenciando un fantasma. Sin embargo, Jesús les llama: “Tened coraje. Yo no tengo miedo. Característicamente, Pedro responde con entusiasmo y pide al Señor que le permita venir a Él sobre las aguas. “¡Ven!”, dice Jesús. Mientras Pedro mantenga los ojos fijos en el Señor, puede caminar sobre las aguas, a pesar de la aspereza del mar. Sin embargo, cuando él saca los ojos del Señor y ve cómo los fuertes vientos están azotando el mar, el miedo lo aprieta y él se siente hundido. Entonces clama al Señor: “¡Sálvame!”

¿Qué tan cierto de muchos de nosotros también. Cuando las cosas nos van bien, podemos sentir que estamos bien y luego quitamos nuestros ojos del Señor. Sin embargo, cuando vienen los juicios, nos damos cuenta de que necesitamos al Señor, y llamamos desesperadamente a pedir ayuda. A menudo me maravillo de las personas cuya confianza es tan segura que hay cierta tranquilidad en su ser, incluso en circunstancias traumáticas.

Como todo lo demás en la vida, mantener nuestra atención en el Señor tanto en los buenos tiempos como en los difíciles es una gracia especial. Pidamos al Señor la gracia de amarlo como merece ser amado y confiar en Él en todo momento.

         Escúchame, casa de Ya'akov,
           Todos los que quedan de la casa de Israel:
           Te he dado a luz desde el nacimiento,
           Llevado desde el útero.
           Hasta tu vejez seré la misma -
           Te llevaré hasta que tu pelo sea blanco.
           Yo te he hecho, y te llevaré;
          Sí, te llevaré y te salvaré.   
                                
                                               Isaías 46:3-4

 Reflexión: 
  ¿Cuándo te resulta difícil confiar en el Señor? Pídale que le ayude.

Wednesday, March 1, 2017

March 5 - Temptations

First Sunday of Lent - Year A  
  
Reading 1: GN 2:7-9; 3:1-7
Response: Psalm 51
Reading II: ROM 5:12,17-19
Gospel: MT 4:1-11

It touches my heart to know that Jesus chose not only to share in our humanity, but also to subject himself to temptations like ours. After fasting in the Desert for 40 days, He was hungry, tired, and likely discouraged when He thought of the fact that after all He had done for us, some would still not be saved. Even though Jesus was about to give His suffering and life for all of us, He knew that some would reject Him and His generous gifts.

Jesus gives us example of faithfulness, in spite of weariness, disappointment, and pain. He turns his heart to His Father for assistance in his time of need. Otherwise, the human heart of Jesus could have lost its courage and succumbed to the temptations.



In my bedroom, I have a picture of Jesus dying on the cross, but his eyes are raised heavenward. I interpret it as Jesus’ looking to his Father for the strength to endure. It is a reminder for me that we do not suffer alone. God may not take suffering away from us, but he will be with us through it all.



I often think of parents whose children are going through painful treatments in order to preserve or better their lives. The good parents encourage and remain with the children, but do not spare them the suffering they must bear with the hope of a positive outcome. God also permits us to undergo difficulties, knowing that good may come of them.

The late Bishop Cassidy of Ireland expressed Jesus’ Incarnation in the following way: “He did not just ‘try on’ our human nature. He felt soul-tight the pressure of our flesh. Today [in the Gospel] we see him taut in the agony of temptation.” In Hebrews 2:18, we hear “for the suffering He passed through while being put to the test enables Him to help others when they are being put to the test.”

In Alcoholics Anonymous and other similar programs, we see results because the people who are running them have had been through the same struggles as the members. Therefore, there is a deep understanding among them. 

Jesus wants us to know that in his humanity, he has been through similar temptations, so he completely understands our struggles. By “leaning on the Lord” for our strength, we too, can triumph over temptations.

As we begin Lent, hoping to draw closer to the Lord, let us ask his help to make the sacrifices required. Let us remember to get our strength from Him who became one of us and who understands us fully.

Spanish Translation of Reflection Above...

Tentaciones

Toca mi corazón saber que Jesús escogió no sólo compartir nuestra humanidad, sino también someterse a tentaciones como la nuestra. Después de ayunar en el desierto durante 40 días, estaba hambriento, cansado y probablemente desanimado cuando pensaba en el hecho de que después de todo lo que había hecho por nosotros, algunos todavía no serían salvos. Aunque Jesús estaba a punto de dar Su sufrimiento y vida para todos nosotros, Él sabía que algunos lo rechazarían y Sus generosos dones.

Jesús nos da ejemplo de fidelidad, a pesar del cansancio, la decepción y el dolor. Él vuelve su corazón a Su Padre por ayuda en su tiempo de necesidad. De lo contrario, el corazón humano de Jesús podría haber perdido su coraje y sucumbido a las tentaciones.

En mi dormitorio, tengo una foto de Jesús muriendo en la cruz, pero sus ojos están elevados hacia el cielo. Lo interpreto como la mirada de Jesús a Su Padre para la fuerza para soportar. Es un recordatorio para mí que no sufrimos solo. Dios no quita el sufrimiento de nosotros, pero estará con nosotros a través de todo.

A menudo pienso en los padres cuyos hijos están pasando por tratamientos dolorosos con el fin de preservar o mejorar sus vidas. Los buenos padres animan y permanecen con los niños, pero no les perdonan el sufrimiento que deben soportar con la esperanza de un resultado positivo. Dios también nos permite sufrir dificultades, sabiendo que el bien puede venir de ellos.

El difunto obispo Cassidy de Irlanda expresó la Encarnación de Jesús de la siguiente manera: “Él no sólo 'probó' nuestra naturaleza humana. Se sentía apretado por el alma la presión de nuestra carne. En el Evangelio lo vemos tenso en la agonía de la tentación.” En Hebreos 2:18, oímos, “porque el sufrimiento por el que pasó mientras se le puso a prueba le permite ayudar a otros cuando están siendo puestos a la prueba.”

En Alcohólicos Anónimos y otros programas similares, vemos resultados porque las personas que los dirigen han tenido las mismas luchas que los miembros. Por lo tanto, hay un profundo entendimiento entre ellos.

Jesús quiere que sepamos que en su humanidad ha pasado por tentaciones similares, por lo que entiende completamente nuestras luchas. Al “apoyarnos en el Señor” para nuestra fuerza, nosotros también podemos triunfar sobre las tentaciones.

Cuando comenzamos la Cuaresma, esperando acercarnos al Señor, pidamos su ayuda para hacer los sacrificios requeridos. Recuérdese que tenemos la fuerza de Aquel que se hizo uno de nosotros y que nos entiende plenamente.