Monday, April 22, 2019

April 28, 2019 - The Gift of Welcome

Second Sunday of Easter C  


Reading I:  Acts 5:12-16

Psalm:  118

Reading II:  Rev. 1:9-11 a,
12-13 , 17-19

Gospel:  John 20: 19-31


In today’s Gospel, we reflect on the experience of Thomas, the apostle, after the Passion and death of Jesus. Like the other disciples, he is confused, heart-broken, and ashamed of his abandonment of Jesus in his darkest hours.

However, unlike the other disciples, Thomas is not present when Jesus in his glorified body enters the room where the disciples are gathered and greets them with the consoling words: “Peace be with you.” Then, He shows them His pierced hands and side so that they can recognize Him. Thomas misses out on that wonderful experience of seeing the Master and knowing that He is still alive in
His glorified body and cares about them.

When the disciples tell Thomas of Jesus’ appearance, he responds: “Unless I see the mark of the nails in his hands and put my finger into the nail marks and put my hand into his side, I will not believe.” We often refer to Thomas as “Doubting Thomas.” But there may be another reason for his response. He
may be feeling the pain of exclusion. Why did Jesus appear when he was not
with the others?

Jesus, sensitive to feelings of being left out, returns the next week when Thomas is with the disciples. He then approaches Thomas inviting him: “Put your finger here and see my hands, and bring your hand and put it into my side, and do not be unbelieving, but believe.” This calls forth from Thomas the beautiful declaration of faith: “My Lord and my God.” This prayer has been repeated countless times in people’s hearts at the Consecration as the priest holds up the Sacred Body and Blood for adoration.

Jesus knows the pain caused by exclusion and makes a point to reassure Thomas of his love and concern. Jesus has a welcoming heart which reaches out to all who are open to his love. As His followers, it is important for us to make people feel welcome and included also. 


I feel very sad these days when I see all the rejection of people whether it is because of race, religion, nationality, disability, sexual preference, or any other reason. Who are we to claim that one of the Lord’s human creations is better than the others? After all, we are all God’s children, His wonderful works of art!

I was happy to hear about a popular granddaughter of a friend of mine who was asked by a young man with Downs Syndrome if she would go to the prom with him. She graciously accepted the invitation and enabled the young man and his family
to have a wonderful experience. The pictures that were taken will preserve the memories of that special night for all involved.

There are many who practice the inclusive love that Jesus taught, but we don’t always hear about them. I am always grateful for the media when it makes a point of highlighting the positive things happenings in our world.

 Reflection Question:   In my own circumstances, how can I reach out to others who may be experiencing the pain of rejection or exclusion?



Spanish Translation of Reflection Above...
El Regalo de Bienvenida


En el Evangelio de hoy, reflexionamos sobre la experiencia de Tomásel apóstol, después de la pasión y muerte de Jesús. Al igual que los otros discípulos, él está confundido, con el corazón roto y avergonzado de su abandono de Jesús en sus horas más oscuras.

Sin embargo, a diferencia de los otros discípulos, Tomás no está presente cuando Jesús en su cuerpo glorificado entra a la sala donde se reúnen los discípulos y los saluda con las palabras de consuelo: La paz esté con ustedes”. Luego, les muestra sus manos perforadas y su costado para que que lo puedan reconocer. Thomas se pierde la maravillosa experiencia de ver al Maestro y saber que todavía está vivo en su cuerpo glorificado y se preocupa por ellos.

Cuando los discípulos le dicen a Tomás la aparición de Jesús, él responde: A menos que vea la marca de las uñas en sus manos y ponga mi dedo en las marcas de uñas y ponga mi mano en su costado, no lo creeré”. A menudo nos referimos a Thomas como Dudando a Tomás.”  Pero puede haber otra razón para su respuesta. Él puede estar sintiendo el dolor de la exclusión.
¿Por qué apareció Jesús cuando no estaba con los demás?

Jesús, sensible a los sentimientos de estar fuera, regresa la próxima semana cuando Tomás está con los discípulos. Luego se acerca a Thomas, invitándolo: “Pon tu dedo aquí y mira mis manos, y trae tu mano y métela en mi costado, y no seas incrédulo, sino cree”. Esto hace que Thomas brinde la hermosa declaración de fe: “Señor mío y Dios mío”. Esta oración se ha repetido innumerables veces en los corazones de las personas en la Consagración mientras el sacerdote sostiene el Cuerpo Sagrado y la Sangre para la adoración.

Jesús conoce el dolor causado por la exclusión y hace un punto para tranquilizar a Thomas de su amor y preocupación. Jesús tiene un corazón acogedor que se extiende a todos los que están abiertos a su amor. Como sus seguidores, es importante para nosotros hacer que las personas se sientan bienvenidas e incluidas también.

Me siento muy triste estos días cuando veo todo el rechazo de las personas, ya sea por motivos de raza, religión, nacionalidad, discapacidad, preferencia sexual o cualquier otra razón. ¿Quiénes somos nosotros para afirmar que una de las creaciones humanas del Señor es mejor que las otras? Después de todo, todos somos hijos de Dios, ¡Sus maravillosas obras de arte!

Me alegró saber que una joven nieta de un amigo mío a quien un joven con síndrome de Down le preguntó si iría al baile de graduación con él. Ella aceptó gentilmente la invitación y permitió que el joven y su familia tuvieran una experiencia maravillosa. Las fotos que se tomaron conservarán los recuerdos de esa noche especial para todos los involucrados.

Hay muchos que practican el amor inclusivo que Jesús enseñó, pero no siempre escuchamos acerca de ellos. Siempre estoy agradecido por los medios de comunicación cuando se trata de resaltar las cosas positivas que suceden en nuestro mundo.

  Pregunta de reflexión:   En mis propias circunstancias, ¿cómo puedo llegar a otras personas que puedan estar experimentando el dolor del rechazo o la exclusión?

1 comment:

  1. “If God is for us, who is against us?” This Scripture verse from Romans 8:31 ought to be our personal mantra to remind us daily whose we are, and with which we can encourage and inspire others. Too often we base our self-worth on the approval of others. We get side-tracked if someone’s words suggest that we are not good enough. Rejection can cause us to feel pain and a sense of aloneness; it can paralyze us and keep us from trying again; from trusting again. What would Jesus do?
    The Gospels tell many stories of Jesus being rejected but he never let it discourage him from his divine purpose. There were times when his disciples wanted to spring into action to retaliate against the hurtful/ harmful behaviors of others and Jesus rebuked them for not acting in the Spirit of God.
    Jesus anticipated rejection. He thoroughly understood human nature. People who are insecure in themselves try to put others down. Recall that Jesus’ “home folks” rejected him – possibly out of jealousy – Jesus was popular, skilled and lived a life of principles that may have caused them fear. They did not want to question their beliefs and lifestyle. In our categorizations and prejudgments we expose our own weaknesses. Jesus was so secure and confident in himself that he could tolerate, and even love, those who rejected him. He was able to do so because He knew He was the Son of God. Let us not allow the flawed opinion of another person to wound us. Let no man’s words undermine us from attaining our dreams; from fulfilling our destiny. Let us be the truth-bearer to those we encounter who are carrying such wounds.
    Rejection happens to us all. When it does, the healthy place to go with it is to Jesus. He alone truly can identify with our pain. Jesus, the Son of God, came to earth to show us how to live an authentic life of peace and tolerance. For this He was crucified. As Jesus hung on the cross, He cried out to His Father, why have you abandoned Me? That is certainly the ultimate feeling of rejection. Jesus knows. Take your brokenness to Him. He will restore and strengthen you. You will remember that you are His and that no one’s words can diminish the truth of who you are and the depth of the Creator’s love for you, the Beloved of God.
    Truly, truly let us remind one another, “If God is for us, who can be against us?”

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